Well it seems that some things are beginning to sink in. But, why wouldn't you get pictures of W & OM "outside" of the covers on the bed--if OM's W has them? Don't you think a Judge would be interested in seeing them? Put dirty pictures with a suicide attempt and WW may not have to worry about being tied down with kids! This is not the time to think like a "gentleman". However, get you a lawyer and listen to the his/her advice.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
