AREN'T THERE ANY MARRIAGE FRIENDLY COUNSELORS OUT THERE???? Bad reasoning. Your IC can't predict the future or read your WH's mind.
It ain't over til it's over! It's good to think about how you will move on if needed, and it's good to enrich your life by GAL. But to tell you that you need to move on because he's not giving you hope is just not correct!
Can you tell her that you still want to reconcile but need help with...let's see I don't know your issues obviously! staying strong, keeping boundaries...how you would handle things if he wanted to R OR if he didn't...sorry I am projectibg here! :-)
GREAT JOB rereading the email and not responding because it wasn't necessary!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004