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You are assuming they think logically. Rationally. That they even KNOW the reasons why they are doing the things they do.

THEY DON'T.

They act from emotions, and that means their behavior changes from day to day.

Sent from my mobile phone- sorry for any misxspollingz.

Me: 50; Wife: 48
Gay; civil union in NJ
no kids
M: 15 years, together 17
Bomb (OW) 2/09 (EA 3mos/PA 3mos) ILYBINILWY
W out of house, w/OW, in separation talks, nothing filed