I think they try to contact you bc 1) they miss you! and 2)they're scared to lose you--what if you are actually serious about this?

I know NC is supposed to be for the BS BUT I'm curious to know how successful it is in getting the WS to make a decision? (as a side effect)
(btw I have not had the best of luck using the quote function!)

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004