ST - we have both been working on how we talk to each other - that makes the big difference. He lost his high paying job yeah and didn't find one for 5 months! but we weren't having any R problems at that time. How I look doesn't make a whole lot of difference I don't believe - but I did lose 30 lbs since last year and have kept them off - need to lose some more but look better for sure.

Definately HIM working made things way better...way better. It showed and I actively told him what it meant to me and how I appreciated his efforts....so I just don't get it.

Here we are again...worse than ever with a WAH or WAW...let's see


M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10