Pls help--confused and fearful

[Day by Day]

@missherlove--you are right. Thanks for pointing it out for me. Your words really helped. I'm feeling weak and worn down today. I'm seeing that NC/detaching really is for me. When WAH contacts me or he picks up the kids, it gets me in the dumps.

Like you have said in your thread, you were worried about detaching completely and you were told to wait until you get there. I feel the same. I'm afraid of completely detaching, but I do see that I need to detach. My new IC said she will be helping me with that.

Thanks for the support! I really appreciate it.