7 months in but still a mess.

[Ready2Change]

I would like to hear what the opinion on this board is.

OK. I am not current on your sitch, I'll give you my POV.

She is coming over to my house so we can talk parenting plan

"Equal and frequent" is best for the children. Having a solid firm landing ground in writting is import when disagreements happen. Know what you want BEFORE seeing her proposal.

I am thinking I will just sign

You have not even seen what you are signing!!!! It is important NOT TO SIGN IT, take your time to read it (a week or more), review it with others and then A RESPONSE.

"I need time to review this and will get back to you"

Is there something I should say? Just let it be? Tell her "I am glad to sign it, you are freaking crazy and the sooner I get you gone the better!"

"I do not want D. I see many other options, but if this is the only way for you to be happy, I will not stand in your way"

What have you tried? What has worked?

Patience,Boundaries,Forgiveness