Calling out the Piecers

[Jack_Three_Beans]

OK, I was harsh. But that was only if that was how you were breaking up with her.

For your info...it takes the average stalker 2 years to find a new target. Which is how long it took my wife's OM to move on as well...poor thing.

Ummm...Although...

And I told this person all along, no attachments.

It seems like the MLCer isn't the only one to learn shitt on this trip huh?

That never works buddy...as in NEVER...works.
Never.

But in your defense...crazy chicks are AWESOME in bed.

[mishka422]

That never works buddy...as in NEVER...works.
Never.

SERIOUSLY! Dylan, have you now learned that women are very emotional creatures and can NEVER, EVER be just FWB's.

But in your defense...crazy chicks are AWESOME in bed.

Hmmmm....maybe we all need a little crazy then?

[dday101798]

Oooooooh I am getting way to slap happy and looking for a 4th wind now to dive into this conversation. lol

[mishka422]

Go outside into what I imagine is a lot of cold air, run around the block, and drink an Amp or Monster energy drink. That should do ya!

[Puppy Dog Tails]

DDay,

Since it seems like you ar about to enter piecing I'm going to post to you here instead of your scatter shot threads all over the place; which by the way...annoying to keep track of you.

I read the one in Divorced and Done.

Congrats.

It almost seems too good to be true.

I hope that sentence made you think.

Here is the other one I want you to think about.

Fool me once shame on you; fool me twice shame on me.

At the speed you are going, if you get hurt it is going to be your fault.

I am NOT raining on your parade. I am very happy for you, I also want this to work for you.

When there is construction on a road you don't race down it at 80 mph, you go slowly while it is being repaired.
DDay, do not get hurt.

You are rebuilding something important here, and slow work lasts. I am speaking from my experience here man, and seeing what happens to DBers who end up back here. Slow changes stick.

Don't end back here, make this last. You improve your chances with going slowly.

Jack,

Not sure if that helped Dday at all, but it sure helped me, and I NEEDED TO HEAR IT TODAY.

Thanks for the time you put in here.

My son and I have a saying in our fantasy football league we do together: "Slow and steady, wins the race." Sometimes I need to remember that with the fetching Mrs. Puppy.

Puppy

[Jack_Three_Beans]

Pup,

Considering the esteem I hold you in, that means alot. Thanks.

Maybe a piecing thread might not be a bad idea...not just for advice, but to keep on track.

[Puppy Dog Tails]

I'm going to do that. Had a great MC session today, and we're learning to deal with some of our loooong-term issues. Great stuff, that I'll write about soon. Right now we are sitting on the sectional together, enjoying the Christmas tree and all of her villages that I just hooked up for her.

Puppy

[Hope4us]

But in your defense...crazy chicks are AWESOME in bed.

Crack me up Jack. Just the other day at work, one of the guys who works for me was telling me before he started dating his wife he was dating this "crazy chick". He started telling me some of the bunny broiler stuff she used to do and when I asked him why he dated her for so long if she was so nuts and he replied "she was a freak in bed! I kept trying to break it off with her but she'd come to my apartment and I couldn't resist."

BTW dday. I agree completely with Jack's comments on the NC letter. I don't agree with the need for a face to face breakup if it's been 2 months since you've seen her and you've been trying to break it off since. Short and sweet note, you're sorry for any pain she's feeling, but you're going to try to reconcile with your W and you can't see or hear from her again.

[Hope4us]

I'm going to do that. Had a great MC session today, and we're learning to deal with some of our loooong-term issues. Great stuff, that I'll write about soon. Right now we are sitting on the sectional together, enjoying the Christmas tree and all of her villages that I just hooked up for her.

Puppy

Yes Pup, start a thread here. It's nice to be in a position to not have to post every day, but there's definitely some bumps in the road as we move along and having somewhere to bounce idea's off people who have traveled the road before us is a good thing.

[mishka422]

How is it going Dylan? Further convos? Date night? Keep us posted.