Poor SSMguy. Imagine that he has to sit and bare the fact that someone somewhere is having sex and he isn't. Unless he is breaking his marital vows that is. But that is o.k. because his wife is forcing him to do it. He has no choice whatsoever. "but you don't understand she does . . . . and . . . and doesn't . . . hysterical . . . wah wah . . ." My heart is breaking for you.
Your marriage is sexless because you are a coward. You would rather slink off and bang some bimbo than help your wife get to the place where she can deal with her sexual issues. I know . . . you've done everything possibe . . . everthing possible idea in the world you have put to the test and found it lacking.
Divorce your wife. She deserves better than you. You don't deserve to be anyones husband. Maybe someone's f-buddy.
Stop deciding what your wife wants. I bet if you ask her, a wh@re for a husband would probably be pretty low on her list.
I'm a man . . . But I can change . . . If I have to . . . I guess . . .