Wow...gone for a few hours and another 4 pages on this thread! You are truly lucky Kevin. I have 3 steady people that post on mine, but thats it...Hint Hint everyone!
Anyway, someone brought up something that caught my attention...your AA and addictive personality. The best gift you can give yourself is to stand alone. People on my thread call my exh a rollercoaster and quick to decisions...even bad ones. He is into instant gratification. Goes from woman to woman..cannot be alone. He hasn't been alone once since we split up. I wonder what his life would be like if he was alone and he had to make it on his own? He is also an alcoholic, but not in recovery like you.
Take this time and work on you! I think that is much sexier than a guy who needs a woman.
Me: 46 FWS: 36 Married and Divorced 4/07, Pregnant 7/07,False R 7/07 Baby Girl born 3/08 Kicked him out because OW: 7/08 5/10 He realized what he had and lost. Moved home! REMARRIED 3/14/11!!