if you haven't already. what were you doing different when things were better? or what was he doing different? what were the outside influences...like have there been changes in the house, or job, or was he exercising then, and not now, or were you fixing up yourself a lot then, and your not so much now, etc...
you didn't comment on the books I mentioned. Have you read them?
Me 33 H 34 S9 S3 M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs) EA/PA 1/2006 DB 5/2006 H wants D 6/2006 H wants ME 8/2006 H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006 H erased OW off phone! 2/2007
"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."
