PDT you are very wise. Thank you. I am prepared to just file for D on my own as I said I would. I just emailed my L asking for a meeting on Monday to prepare and file D papers.
WAW's continuing affair IS a deal breaker.
I will continue to be pleasant to WAW in our business dealings while getting the D papers stick drawn up. This feels like the best way to DB at this time.
She really was smug when she told me she hired a L in response to me asking her to end her affair. I can't determine who is giving her such poor advice. It is either OM or her Mother the Enabler (who is funding her WAW life now).
It's hard to believe how similar are the words (e.g., better for the kids, ILYBINILWY, etc.) others in this forum have heard from their LBS's I also heard from my WAW.
