Hi Guys and Gals,

Thanks for your well wishes. I know you all know more than anyone how much it is needed. The future is certainly unpredictable - how many of us would have though we would be where we are today in our sitch. But, I'm trying to take it day by day and to focus first on foremost on numero uno - ME.

Being - I could not agree with you more. H completely had a part, a huge part, to play in all this. In fact, I think he is really to blame most b/c I know ow had intentions of being with him as a family and I just knew that was not his intentions. Even his friends knew it. So I don't at all forget the role he played. In fact what I meant when I said I can't vbe concerned with the choices ow made was that I was actually feeling bad that she would be a single mother struggling and that maybe h should just be there and how hurt the kids will be. But then I had to realize these are the choices she made for her life and there is only so much concern and compassion I can have since she knew that H was already involved and married. So that's what I meant.

doodles, how are you glad. Glad to read on your post that you're well. Yea, my sitch took a turn that I just did not want, but what can I do about it. Not a darn thing. I just gotta take care of me and that's all I have control of at the moment, right. Anyway, I wish you well with the new guy. Just have fun and enjoy yourself. Life is too short.

Pup - always love hearing from youi. Thanks

Thanks again guy and gals. Will update as life goes on.