7 months in but still a mess.

[TrentC]

I would like to hear what the opinion on this board is. She is coming over to my house so we can talk parenting plan and sign paperwork.

Signing something without consulting legal counsel first? Not smart.

You need to protect yourself; divorce is an adversarial process, and she is not your ally in this.

Tell her that you'll get with your attorney as soon as possible to review the paperwork, and you'll get back to her.