Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

That's true, Britt. If you feel that uncomfortable involving your sister, you could say your son told you daddy hurt his feelings - that should make him feel more guility anyway.

Agreed. Besides, him carping about how you found out would be trying to change the subject.

"It doesn't matter how I found out. You're sneaking out of the house to avoid talking to your son, who loves you and misses you. I won't stand for it; unless you grow up and start acting like their father, then I think it will be less confusing for the kids if you just go back to your sister's place."