That's true, Britt. If you feel that uncomfortable involving your sister, you could say your son told you daddy hurt his feelings - that should make him feel more guility anyway.
I DISAGREE. Do not tell H how you know. It is not you responsibility to inform H how you find out about irresponsible behavior.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712