You can handle it. Your kids need you to handle it. God will help you handle it.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
I agree that you've got it backwards. H is not good enough for you.
"My actions are my only true belongings. I cannot escape the consequences of my actions. My actions are the ground upon which I stand." Thich Nhat Hanh
No worries my friend - I am not going "there", I just need to think...
My Dad said something last night to me after I had calmed down enough to actually utter a coherent word and explain to him why I was so upset - He thinks H only said that because S put him on the spot and H really has no intention of following thru.
After all you know, do you believe this to be true? Should I not be so worried?
Just thinking about the H he has become "taking" care of our S is enough to make my skin crawl and I never thought I would utter those words about the man I married.
(((Hugs)))
May All Who Seek To Take My Life Be Put To Shame And Confusion; May All Who Desire My Ruin Be Turned Back In Disgrace. ~Psalm 40:14~
It's certainly a plausible possibility. But it could also be as someone said above, tho -- more of a "14 year old being 14" than about "betrayal."
My S13, who I coach in baseball, and I fight like cats and dogs on the ballfield, and I take everything WAY too personally. OFF the field, we get along GREAT -- best buds. My wife always tells me, wisely, "Pup, he's only 13. Stop expecting him to think like a grown-up."
