Originally Posted By: SoldierDad
I feel so much pressure on my chest, it almost takes the wind out of me when I think of her w/OP. I get this feeling of hate, and nausea, and complete abandonment. Is this normal?


When it first became clear to me that my W was having an A and who it was with I vomited, then went into denial for about a week. Not sure if that's normal but have a physical reaction to your spouse cheating on you is I'd say.


Age: 28
Wife's Age: 28
Relationship: 10 Years (dated on and off)
Married: Less than one year
Seperated: 1.75 years, finally served with D 4/30/2011