Yep, they got married. It was supposed to be a surprise but my son told me about it a few days before, apologizing for not keeping the secret from me like he was supposed to. 1) I think as the mom I should know about big changes in my kids lives and 2) who tells a child to keep a big secret from their parent(s)? That's a lot of pressure on a 7-year old. Anyway, I digress.

How is child/spousal support amounts set in Iowa? We used a software product called "dissomaster" to figure out the amounts. This program figures out how to most equitably divvy up the family income. Support is re-evaluated each year, upon reasonable request by either party or after major financial changes.

This is stuff your attorney should be covering with you, IMO.


Me: 42/H: 37
T: 10 years/M: 8
D9, S8
Bomb: 7.23.07
Separated: 1.20.08
D Final 3.19.09
Affair started in '05, found out parts in 11/07. They married 11.26.09

My life is good.