So you enjoyed some companionship . . . it isn't the end of the world. Its amazing that women actually might want what your wife so casually threw away isn't it?
You aren't ready to be in another relationship. Finish this one first. Does your wife plan of divorcing you? If so why hasn't she filed? How long are you going to sit and wait for this mess of a human to make up her mind? How many men has she slept with now?
I'm a man . . . But I can change . . . If I have to . . . I guess . . .