I do not advocate having a third party do your confronting for you. It will be perceived as WEAK by your wife, and she and OM will have a nice laugh at your expense.
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Plus, you will have revealed that this is ALL the intel that you have.
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That being said, I'm all for DOING WHATEVER IT TAKES to bust an affair, and this guy just MAY scare the bejeezus out of his friend.
I think he probably would scare the bejeezus out of him. On the other hand, OM might say something like W would say; “We’re just friends and she’s going a rough time right now” or some such.
Again good points about looking weak and compromising my intel. As you alluded earlier, I just confirmed my suspicions two days ago. I don’t want to rush this and botch it. If I do, W and OM will just be more careful and even harder to catch.
I need to just keep up the friendly act at the gym and allay W's fears that I have seen the cell bills. They’re more likely to make a mistake if they’re relaxed, eh?
H: 50 W: 48 Married 20 years Bomb and separation: 9/12/09 A discovered 12/02/09 http://tinyurl.com/yctnhec
