DO NOT feel guilty about spending the $...he spent for $ for his As and in that case, any amount is too much! but don't bring that up right now.
I know what you mean about them not changing...I read somewhere that if R comes for us, that is one of the toughest things to deal with. we made changes for the better in their absence, and all they did was drop the A. so it can be infuriating.
Sometimes I list the annoying things about WH to make myself feel better in case he Ds me!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
