I do not advocate having a third party do your confronting for you. It will be perceived as WEAK by your wife, and she and OM will have a nice laugh at your expense.
Plus, you will have revealed that this is ALL the intel that you have.
AND, you will lost cop friend as a source of intel for you.
That being said, I'm all for DOING WHATEVER IT TAKES to bust an affair, and this guy just MAY scare the bejeezus out of his friend.
Since your intel only consists of QUANTITY (and timing) OF CONTACT right now, I would hate to lose Cop Friend as a source and potential P.I. for you, because I feel like you need more. If you were already loaded down with two or three different sources of good, reliable intel, I might lean toward this option, but remember, we're in the "Put on an act and gather as much as you can for the next few weeks" mode.
