Wow, the coincidences here are just uncanny. My wife is also a personal trainer, and her OM was also a cop! Or, still in the academy, studying to become one actually. Weird.
That is weird!
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If you feel you can trust him, this would be ideal. But he's friends with OM; are you sure you can trust him to help you, and to keep it confidential?
I know I can trust him. Another thought occurred to me. If I sit down with Jim and show him the phone bills (which are incredibly damning), depending on the level of friendship with OM, he might want to sit down with OM (cell bills in hand) and strongly urge him to lay off. And, that would probably end the A.
Thinking out loud….any confrontation coming from me right now will be contrued as the crazy, jealous husband. But if a third party, particularly a man who specializes in investigation, says, “C’mon. Any idiot can look at these bills and see what’s going on”, that would seem to be enough to bust the A. OM is married to a wealthy woman. Both OM and W have reputations I assume they want to protect. This would give them the chance to end the A with minimal collateral damage. Only one person (besides me) knows about the A. If I were in their shoes I would thank my lucky stars and quit while I was ahead.
Am I just babbling or does that make sense?
And, yes, I am praying about this.
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This woman Ann might be a "card" you can play -- or even have the credible threat of playing -- later.
Good point. Hadn’t thought about that.
Last edited by Norm914; 12/04/0908:52 PM.
H: 50 W: 48 Married 20 years Bomb and separation: 9/12/09 A discovered 12/02/09 http://tinyurl.com/yctnhec
