There appears to be 2 OMs. One a coworker, another a high school friend from home (5 hour drive away). OM1 is local during the week guy. OM2 visits on weekends. Of course always tells people who ask "just friends".
Are they still around probably - I don't pay much attention to that anymore.
trying to be the "man" and shield her from those worries
Book recommendations (you can Google the names and get some info now):
No More Mr Nice Guy (NMMNG)
His Needs/Her Needs
The Five Love Languages (5LLs)
Prepare yourself that you probably will get divorced or might reconcile.
M22,H45,W45 S21/18D12 Retain faith that you will prevail in the end, regardless of the difficulties and at the same time confront the most brutal facts of your current reality, whatever they might be.
