SpyBunny,

Just checking in again. I'm starting to get concerned because this is the last thing we heard from you...

Originally Posted By: SpyBunny
Tonight H and I are going to the show with the tickets that I got him for his b-day since we're doing OK together for now. It's probably our last outing as a couple for a while.


I didn't catch this the first time around, but I hope that you took precautions not to be alone with him at all that night. One of the most dangerous things you can do is to go back to an abuser, or let them come back, after you get away.

I heard some depressing stories about domestic murder/suicides in Oregon on the radio this morning; all in all, 17 people have been killed in the past 2 or 3 months. That includes the sorry SOBs that killed themselves, as well as three children. In at least one case the man killed his estranged wife, and then killed himself, after she allowed him to come to the house to pick up his stuff.

We don't need a full update: just a quick "hello" would be appreciated. Keeping positive thoughts and prayers headed your way...


Me: 44, Wife: 39
M: 17 years T: 20 years
Bomb on 08/25/09
1/13/10: MC started
1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs
8/28/10: Wife moved out
No talk of D, no movement

"Every day is another chance to get it right."