heh, puppy, my excitement is released here, much like venting, ranting, right now I'm releasing my excitement and not melty man in front of her.
Yes, slow and steady. And she knows she has work to do, I was pretty blunt on that.
And yes, I re-itterated firmly, no contact with OM and as far as I'm concerned the entire family, she was ok with that. This was said when XW states "you are my other half, no-one else, I was wrong, we are halves" And I told her point blank, 'then you need to get rid of the wedge the came between us once and for all and with my insight and knowledge.'