Originally Posted By: Coach
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I guess when he mentioned coming home I just expected him to naturally talk to me about it when he got here.


How'd that work for you? smirk

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I would like to know how people who have reconciled after a separation get back into the swing of things???


Communication - validation, listening, empathy, compassion

identifying and dealing with issues - solutions

transparency

avoiding old dysfunctional habits

saying what is on your mind - don't be afraid of what the other might think

boundaries - differentiation

practice true giving - LLs, no expectations

re-committing

That should get you started. You can handle it.



"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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