Glad it made you feel better, and also glad your wife has already presented you a date night confirmation! Give it to her good and then don't let it slide next week when she's tired. In the meantime, keep working on communication skills, have good conversations with her about HER day and her life (and yours, topics other than kids), and most importantly...keeping picturing the love life you want with your wife...keep it firmly in your mind all the time.