Have you ever considered there just MIGHT some middle ground between those two extremes I've quoted here from you?
So does that make you the jeep, the boat, or the helicopter?
Me: 44, Wife: 39 M: 17 years T: 20 years Bomb on 08/25/09 1/13/10: MC started 1/28/10, 2/8/10: More bombs 8/28/10: Wife moved out No talk of D, no movement