If your wife treats respectful requests for sex with her husband as sexual harassment, then you should divorce her. Sex is a normal part of marriage. If sex is such an issue for her it might be a kindness to release her so she isn't always under some pressure that her husband just might want to have sex with her.
The part of you wanting to be with lots of women doesn't bother me a bit; it is that sticky part that you are doing it while married. One part of marriage is fidelity. If you can't live with that part then leave marriage to the people that can as you just aren't suitable marriage material.
No one deserves to be cheated on. You do not do that to someone you love and respect for any reason. I hope I'm clear on that
Stating that you won't continue to live in a sexless marriage isn't a threat. You are stating a boundary.
I'm a man . . . But I can change . . . If I have to . . . I guess . . .
