Your letter sounds clinical, elitist and written by a copyright lawyer.
Nothing wrong with copyright lawyers...btw.
Why not just keep it really simple?
FWB,
Me and my wife are working on our relationship, for us and our children. It is not possible to rebuild our marriage if you are in my life. I am sorry for the pain I caused, you do not deserve it.
Given a chance most people do the right thing DDay. Lets hope that FWB does.
She doesn't need to know that your wife is doing the same thing with her OM. You don't need to tell her how you're rebuilding. You don't need to tell her how to act in public...
I do have question for you...about you. Are you controlling? Has that been a complaint in the past?
Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis
Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans
Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK
