Thanks Luvless, that is the plan work on me. Spend time with son. I should mention that I had already started GD with her before reading book. Hard to be upbeat around her during drop offs and pick ups for kid. Need to find something to fill time. During Aug - Nov. coached sons machine pitch basball team and soccer team -- keeps you busy and involved. That is over with so going to hit the gym, etc. Doing a lot of reading - some marriage books but a lot of other books as well.
Just realize I need to do some 180s and LRT. And expect that this will take a long time and will probably have to watch her go through another relationship.
Should have mentioned that this is my first marriage, but her second. She was a WAW in that one. Pattern here.