I won't be putting up stockings on the mantle this year. I don't want a reminder of H not being here.
Try not to mind read that he doesn't think you are going on a date. At least he knows that you will not have your plans messed up on wknds if he can't watch your son. You will still be going out GAL!!
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10