newmama, yes you are correct he is worried - he is not sure if they renew his contract or not - but he doesn't have to take it out on me - you wouldn't believe the text messages I am getting -I called him this evening and had it out with him on the phone - I said to him that he calls me every week and we talk about so much and then something important like this comes up and he gets back to nasty text messages - like a little child - honestly. And the one thing which comes up over and over again - that I have brought us into this situation with my spending - and he is correct, I have spent far too much in the past - but I am done feeling guilty about it - I have changed so much in that area and I am working on getting rid of our debts. It just seems he hasn't changed a bit since April - he just stood still and thaty is so sad. I asked him what did he think would happen after he signed the form for the mortgage? And you know what he answered: that he didn't read the 2 first pages and just signed it - by the way he took that back later as I didn't believe him anyway. We agreed on a text message from me in future in case he wants me to wait a few days until next pay day. he could have just said that but now he had to unleash all his anger onto me as usual.I feel like I am married to a 5 year old whinging child sometimes.
