Newmama, I was feeling like answering, so I'm glad you replied. I was thinking of saying that since his objectives for counseling are not the same as mine, it is not necessary for him to go unless he wants to work on reconciling.
We don't have a schedule for this month yet and he hasn't asked to see the kids this wknd and next wknd he can't because of school. That would leave him the last two wknds of Dec. But he hasn't asked yet.
M40, H39 M17 T20 D13, S12 H moved out 05/09 D filed 1/10