this is what I'm trying to avoid - my main reason for being here

I'm so scared I'll be one of those WA's and my H will beg me back that he has changed (and maybe he will for real this time) but for me - too late!

You better start working on you...it's the only thing you have right now. You can't do anything to change what she is doing. You can only change you. If you wanna fight for this you gotta fight for you first. That is the best thing I can tell you. There's a great group of supportive people here for you. Keep reading.

so upsetting to see so many families in crisis frown


M44 H41
M20 T23
3 older teens
Bomb Nov 09 "i'm not happy"
EA Nov 09 w/coworker
Another PA in Mar 10
I Filed Apr 10
D final Dec 10