7 months in but still a mess.

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Steve I have been thinking the same thing. I actually had a "girlfriend" for a couple months. She did get jealous and as soon as there was signs that she could fit back in she tried.

I am not sure how my counselor sees this working out but I am not really worried about it. I am willing to try anything once. So I will see what happens. I know that my back up plan is exactly that. Dump her hard.

It has changed over the last couple months from wanting my W back to wanting my family back. I so am not looking forward to being a part time dad. I am also flying solo in the adoption so that is not much fun either. But I have not had many problems with other woman. One week from today and I will see what the deal is. Then try something else.

I have noticed that as soon as I am her friend she responds nicely to it. Then in a very happy way she will make sure she takes the next step in the divorce.

Good times. One week. Maybe I will be her best friend and date at the same time

“Hey how was work… great. ..Tonight I am going out with that fitness instructor I was telling you about. … Yup… have a good night!.. Sure I will call you later. Oh by the way I got those papers signed like you wanted me to.”