Well what would have happened if you didn't pay the mortgage? Bad news! sheesh-- now don't worry about his family. Will you see them for Christmas?

I think it sounds like he is in a bad mood about something else and is blaming you for this.
He still gets to come home for Christmas right?

me,34
exH,34
S,16 months
S:3/31/09-left for OW
started DBing 10/09
d final: sometime 10/10
current:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1
met in 2004