I am sending you this letter as although I have personally elected not to speak with you in nearly two months, you continue to call my place of work, personal phone, text message, and send postal mailings. All communication in any form must cease immediately.
Although the establishment of our friendship dates after the physical separation of myself and then wife (XW), we were still legally married, deeming aspects of our friendship as inappropriate. A similar letter in nature will also be written to the person inappropriately involved with (XW) to cease his communication with her as (XW) has come forth with the desire to repair our friendship, family and most of all, personal relation with each other to whatever degree may result. Logically, to ease the difficult task of restoring trust to a whole loving relationship with (XW), my association with you can no longer exist and must be terminated.
Therefore, upon receipt of this letter, please respect our desires to rebuild a healthy and loving relationship free of worry that either (XW) or I be in contact with persons detrimental to our efforts. This includes, but is not limited to all phone contact: voice or data, e-mails, and postal mail. Should you either see myself, (XW), our children or any combination forth mentioned in public, respectfully seek an alternate path to avoid confrontation.
This letter has been read and personally sent certified mail by (XW) as I shall do the same hers to ensure that no contact by any means shall occur with to those deemed as inappropriate and unacceptable to each other.
It is my hope that life grants you all it has to offer and wish you well."
Me 35/XW 33 S13 & S12 M: 10/17/98 OM & S: 07/08 D final 06/09/09 12/03/09 - 06/13/10 "Piercing" 06/13/10: Engaged to Re-marry 10/17/10 06/25/10: Expecting baby #3 2/14/11