At this point, I don’t want Ann to know about this A. I don’t want to humiliate my W. I don’t want to bust up OM’s marriage. I just want to stop this A and have my wife come home and work with me to restore our marriage.
That is good. I wish I had exposed to a SLIGHTLY smaller of circle of people than I did. This woman Ann might be a "card" you can play -- or even have the credible threat of playing -- later.