Well not much more to report. Still not sure what’s happening xmas day. I’ve told the kids that their father is welcome to call round if he wants as that makes sense, there’s 4 of them and 1 of him for a start, but that I’m not interfering between him and them. The kids will decide although at the moment he’s adamant that he won’t call in. Maybe it’s got something to do with OW who knows. I sense that she’s putting him under some sort of pressure, she wants more than he’s prepared to give.
I finally don’t care whether he comes round or not, it’s the kids shout. Got my head round it now, if they end up going there it’s not the end of the world and an hour or two on my own may actually be welcome.
Good luck to you Sanderika in what will be a tough week ahead.
