Originally Posted By: robx
Honestly, do you want your husband back?
And if you want him back is it because of the financial security he offers or because you love him.

Time to be honest about this.

Your posts no longer involve divorce busting as far as I can see it, they just seem about someone looking for some cash to pay bills and a way to move on from their married life and that's cool if that is the case and you're honest about it.

If he doesn't love you anymore and you've db'd to the best of your ability for a lengthy amount of time, maybe it's time to just move on with your life and prepare for the next great relationship.


robx, I think the most likely outcome is divorce and I am prepared to move on. Yes, right now, my primary concern is ensuring that I have what I need financially. To do otherwise would be foolhardy. I did love my husband and I still do, in a different way. I did not marry him for financial security and would not stay with him for financial reasons. It is beginning to sound like you have a real problem with me looking out for myself financially, as if wanting to be able to pay for my dental work, thereby draining some miniscule sum from my multi-millionare husband makes me a gold digger. Geeze.

You have continued to ask me the same questions repeatedly, and telling me to be honest. I am being honest. In the future, if I don't respond to your questions, it will likely be because I have already addressed your question multiple times already.

I addressed your comment re: DB'ing on my previous thread. Don't know if you saw it.

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1886024&page=21

DB'ing, when all you've got is email with someone on another continent, is pretty challenging. IMO, there will be much more I can do when he returns.

Last edited by Dudess; 12/04/09 05:15 PM.

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