Can I save my marriage?

[TrentC]

I just really cant see H coming home, all our families and friends know he is here again only for him to be seeing OW. It just doesnt make sense. All his fellow police officers know he is home again. Thats a big risk to take to let everyone he knows and cares about to think we are together again only to either not want to try to fix this marriage or to be seeing OW.

As I pointed out before: people have risked and ruined lives, families, careers, and reputations by the boatload for a little action on the side.

If there's an OW, then part of the affair is physiological. He's got the same love chemicals bubbling in his head as he did when he fell in love with you.