feel like giving up - talk to me!

[TrentC]

This morning I get up he says, "morning" and I get coffee. He usually cleans up the kitchen (his forever duty) unloads dishwasher and picks up but he left a mess. He's been acting like a kid lately stomping his feet cuz he has to help. So I say, "can you pick this up a little" he starts raising his voice and says, "what if I don't want to?" irks me to my soul when he acts like this! I kept a calm voice while he is raising his. He is irritated and starts picking up. He does it (took him a whole 10 mins)

"H, stomping around and acting like you're less mature than our kids is really unattractive." Then leave.