So how's S doing? Was the doctor able to help at all on Wednesday? It was really good to hear that H stepped up as a father and took him to the dr himself.
Sending those kind of texts are always a little risky, but I think you're right that they sometimes need that reminder. Sometimes I think we are so busy trying to keep our defenses up and trying to come off upbeat, happy, and confident, that we can actually repel them a bit. It's sounds like it was a good gamble and that he took it as you meant it. I can also totally sympathize with the missing H part. It's really hard not to miss them as you spend more time with them and then they are gone again every night. It can be really emotionally draining. =(
You know, the anniversary really is going to be hard. I know no matter how much you prepare yourself for the worst, it really is hard not to feel devastated if he doesn't do anything. I know I would be. I know people say detach, detach, but when you are so close to a reconciliation, you almost have to keep your heart open to accept the good (which unfortunately sometimes also comes the bad). I would think he would at least acknowledge it, but who knows how much he will do for it. I'm like you where I would want to see where he's at regarding the R depending on his actions regarding it. But like you said, hope for the best, but plan for the worst and have some fun backup plans. It sounds like you already have some great ones.
Wow, it just seems like we are both coming upon some pretty important Y's in the road here. I just hope these H's get their heads on straight!
Me 27; H 28; S 2 Togeth 9; M 4 Sep 11/14/08 EA OW1 Sep 08 EA OW2 Mar 09 EA OW3 Jun 10
