Again this is just me & my own vibe given the posts you've submitted thus far, this has all been reduced to a financial situation, there are no feelings between the 2 of you, you both seem pretty much indifferent to each other, it's possible gets that vibe from you as much as you get it from him, and that's not very exciting for either of you, hence the negative attitude, the animosity, etc.
Honestly, do you want your husband back? And if you want him back is it because of the financial security he offers or because you love him.
Time to be honest about this.
Your posts no longer involve divorce busting as far as I can see it, they just seem about someone looking for some cash to pay bills and a way to move on from their married life and that's cool if that is the case and you're honest about it.
If he doesn't love you anymore and you've db'd to the best of your ability for a lengthy amount of time, maybe it's time to just move on with your life and prepare for the next great relationship.
