-- Happy, stress-free life w/love in abundance (hopefully w/my husband)
2-Month (14-Year Anniversary is 1/20/2010:
-- Summon-up the courage and knowledge to find proof if there is an affair. (UPDATE - Will need help - no idea how.)
-- Build up enough strength to deal with the results, either way. (UPDATE - working on courage)
-- Have a frank, open discussion w/H regarding what I know (if there is something that gets exposed), and/or what I'm willing to live with within our M. (NOT the way it is!)
Immediate:
-- Heal from this stupid pneumonia. (UPDATE - FEELING BETTER!)
-- Deal w/issues related to my heart arrhythmia (UPDATE - SURGERY 12/28)
-- Have a happy, stress-free holiday season.
-- Re-dedicate myself to a fitness routine. (UPDATE - Walking w/girlfriends - Starting on Monday again...)
-- Begin investigation in possibility of H's affair. (UPDATE - This is on hold until after surgery.)
-- Smile and wave!
Last edited by mindfull; 12/04/0904:24 PM.
Me-46, D-21, S15, S13
After many years w/my head in the sand... I FILED Divorced 6/2011
The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.
