BIM, take your time. Gather your thoughts and your emotions. I agree, you can't make him trust you.
One thing to bear in mind... Although yours, Luv's and Mindfull's situations may have some similarities in the ways your H's are behaving, they are not the same. There are different factors at play here.
((((BIM))))
Stay strong.
G, I totally agree with you that all our sitches are completely different, just that our H's are all disturbingly similar in how they behave with us. What drove them to that point though, not the same at all.
BIM M 39 / H 40 / S 9 / S 6 / T 20 / M 11
my sitch: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1828127#Post1828127
