I’m considering another option. Let me lay this out.
Beside the gym, W partners with a female friend in another small business. We’ve known this couple for years (call them Ann and Jim). Good, Christian people. Jim is an undercover cop – special ops. OM is a uniformed officer. Jim and OM know each other and are friendly (Not too long ago Jim was at OM’s house helping fix an air conditioner.)
My thought is to approach Jim confidentially (not even Ann would know) and ask him to help me stop this A. Obviously, in terms of tracking and surveillance, Jim can do things you and I can only dream of.
At this point, I don’t want Ann to know about this A. I don’t want to humiliate my W. I don’t want to bust up OM’s marriage. I just want to stop this A and have my wife come home and work with me to restore our marriage.
Thoughts?
H: 50 W: 48 Married 20 years Bomb and separation: 9/12/09 A discovered 12/02/09 http://tinyurl.com/yctnhec
